tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post3559721194156048616..comments2023-08-05T12:12:25.393+01:00Comments on parenting BY dummies: Birthday DoughnutDumb Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00912124222427415284noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-71614641634925174402010-01-24T06:47:45.629+00:002010-01-24T06:47:45.629+00:00Our kids have always had a family party (with gran...Our kids have always had a family party (with grandparents) and sometimes also had a friend party. A donut with a candle in it isn't a birthday party; it's simply a mini-celebration to mark the day. Sounds fun, to me :)Mrs4444https://www.blogger.com/profile/06426176094895489541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-40996401509532354782010-01-23T01:45:15.140+00:002010-01-23T01:45:15.140+00:00Of course, I had to chek this out after the Fragme...Of course, I had to chek this out after the Fragment post! Wow! Some people!<br />I really want a donut now!Amethystmoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08281654875299175221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-74493958882801033312010-01-22T19:46:07.994+00:002010-01-22T19:46:07.994+00:00Happy (belated) Birthday to your little cutie!
I ...Happy (belated) Birthday to your little cutie!<br /><br />I think Princess Nagger would think I was the BEST MOM EVER if I gave her a doughnut with candles for her birthday. So I think I'll follow your lead and do that in November! ;)Stacy Uncorkedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10084619026794128825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-33018802591521813622010-01-21T20:44:41.049+00:002010-01-21T20:44:41.049+00:00I think you just started a new tradition . . . the...I think you just started a new tradition . . . the birthday doughnut!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-54628414037862723342010-01-21T19:37:41.361+00:002010-01-21T19:37:41.361+00:00Dr. Chicken, I respectfully stand by my comments (...Dr. Chicken, I respectfully stand by my comments (besides, I think my reputation as a vulgar overreactor precede me, and I hold no shame) ;)<br /><br />No one should eff with a mamabear on baby bear's birthday. Period.marymachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01456115911638132597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-1219725057228646962010-01-21T18:55:29.357+00:002010-01-21T18:55:29.357+00:00Wow! What an exciting day we are having at Casa d...Wow! What an exciting day we are having at Casa de Dummies! It's so sweet to see all of you guys coming to my defense on this. The funny thing about it is that Nifty is not a regular reader so she doesn't have all the info to make an informed statement about me or my child rearing practices. One would think that would make her not speak, but you know, everyone's not quite so thoughtful. Anyway, I hate that I feel like I have to explain this now, but the whole point of the post was that I spend a whole butt load of time planning these parties (which are more for the family then they are for him) and forget that the entire thing is really about him. We didn't even buy the kid a gift or give him a cake so I highly doubt that he is gonna be spoiled. But, you never know. I guess allowing my child to share his special day with his grandparents and his friends could cause him to grow up to be a spoiled, know it all, judgy person. I don't know. It seems that even people who are "lucky" to have even one party can grow up that way to. Either way, I'm convinced that my mothering skills leave a lot to be desired and that some of my more questionable practices could one day cause them to seek the comfort of a therapist named Jack Daniels. I highly doubt, though, that my organizing of birthday parties and my providing him with a birthday "cake" because he asked for one will be the ones.Dumb Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00912124222427415284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-89054696621346905312010-01-21T15:48:44.577+00:002010-01-21T15:48:44.577+00:00Oh my gosh, lots of action here today.
I wasn'...Oh my gosh, lots of action here today.<br /><br />I wasn't really paying attention though. I've been blinded by the DOUGHNUT.Brilliant Sulkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07455777088708665581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-58509188099178305652010-01-21T15:36:59.673+00:002010-01-21T15:36:59.673+00:00If we moms do overreact a bit to such comments, it...If we moms do overreact a bit to such comments, it’s because there always seems to be someone eager to be self-righteous and deliver pronouncements of doom about our parenting styles. It’s so damn smug. And demoralizing, particularly when the writer of this post is trying to have a bit of fun talking about the conundrums we find ourselves in. If you can’t say something supportive, you can at least extend the blessed courtesy of silence.Bad Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09589572246042881069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-46496382373774413522010-01-21T15:36:59.374+00:002010-01-21T15:36:59.374+00:00hey boy...happy birthday to youhey boy...happy birthday to youwahyousmilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09584182069594846394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-38352638599295900262010-01-21T15:36:01.553+00:002010-01-21T15:36:01.553+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.wahyousmilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09584182069594846394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-35056405966784888572010-01-21T15:30:28.874+00:002010-01-21T15:30:28.874+00:00I agree with marymac! Get. Life nifty! One day a...I agree with marymac! Get. Life nifty! One day a year we celebrate the miracle of our childrens birth and the joy of their existance. I am suer that she isn't giving doughnuts morning noon and night day in and day out for pete's sake! Too bad your mommy didn't love you.Maniacalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15786286396218387601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-56660890856714154112010-01-21T15:27:56.785+00:002010-01-21T15:27:56.785+00:00@marymac
You know I love you (a little LOL), but...@marymac <br /><br />You know I love you (a little LOL), but I must say that you are over reacting! The lady is just voicing an opinion... and the opinion is a bit of an over reaction as well.<br /><br />A two year old has <b>no idea</b> what a "birthday" even is. <br /><br />Case in point... My daughter, when she was 4 - <b>4 years old mind you</b> - when asked, "how was your birthday?" said, "Great! It's still in the freezer. Wanna see it?"<br /><br />There are many things that spoil a child - wreck a child - making for a crappy adult that the world has to then put up with. Giving a two-year-old a doughnut on their birthday is just not one of them.<br /><br />Lora (& of course, Dr. Julia Chicken)Dr. Julia Chickenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05215347283824278831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-54994574558402556862010-01-21T15:26:50.390+00:002010-01-21T15:26:50.390+00:00I guess it's "nifty" to judge from b...I guess it's "nifty" to judge from behind a computer screen isn't it? We spoil our FOUR kids on their birthday because we save to do that. It's the one day that they can have whatever they want (with in our ability to provide). I personally know Dumb Mom AND her Ninjas and they are ANYTHING but demanding "give me whatever I want" brats.. well Dumb Mom can be a brat but that's sort of her thang. My mother had her first birthday party at age 50.. I gave it to her.. and NOT having one UNTIL then was tough on her. And made her the best indulgent birthday giver EVER!DiPaola Mommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02681677185895555919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-38274141906624202802010-01-21T15:06:43.539+00:002010-01-21T15:06:43.539+00:00Um. Yeah. What @Marymac said AND other than book...Um. Yeah. What @Marymac said AND other than books, I never, ever buy my kids toys, games, or other superfluous crap during the year. That way their birthday and Christmas are abundant but meaningful. And since my 2 kids birthdays' are 15 days apart, that month has always been a birthday month up until a few years ago with multiple parties and cakes. This isn't spoiling. Giving them everything they want anytime they want is spoiling. And, um, a DOUGHNUT is awesome on your birthday. It's NOT SPOILING YOUR CHILD. [I wonder if someone will give me a doughnut for my birthday?]Carolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02440331516671118735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-11928934837183483852010-01-21T14:52:52.579+00:002010-01-21T14:52:52.579+00:00Well, in my honest opinion there is absolutely not...Well, in my honest opinion there is absolutely nothing wrong with spoiling your children on their birthday.<br />After all, Its their birthday...the annual day of carte-blanche-child-spoilage!<br />Yesterday was my son's 7th birthday and when he woke up I sang him Happy Birthday and his eyes got all wide and he looked at me (this is a big deal!) and said, "Cake, Balloons, Presents, Noise Makers, Party Hats...BIRTHDAY PARTY"<br />You bet your happy ass I went to the store and bought party hats, noisemakers, and balloons even though I had only planned on giving him a birthday cake and a present.<br />Its unfortunate that some did not get the big birthday shindig when they were kids...which is all the more reason we want to do it for our kids!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15333402968377000814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-89492952184739515712010-01-21T14:44:35.084+00:002010-01-21T14:44:35.084+00:00Nifty: You're a douchesurfer. Who the fuck do ...Nifty: You're a douchesurfer. Who the fuck do you think you are telling this mom she is SPOILING her kid because she gave him A GODDAMN DONUT on his BIRTHDAY, for fuckssake? Take your childhood anger to a therapist, but keep it off the cool blog of a really good mom. Commenters are like children, i guess, sometimes we bloggers just have to say NO.marymachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01456115911638132597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-91075998782973871602010-01-21T14:31:30.831+00:002010-01-21T14:31:30.831+00:00honestly, this is why kids are sooo spoiled now. A...honestly, this is why kids are sooo spoiled now. At this point, when the child asks where the cake is, you tell them that they have to wait until the party when their friends come over. They may be sad for a minute, but they'll forget fast and get over it. Growing up, I was lucky if i got to have one party and have people other than my family invited at all. 2 or 3 parties is just ridiculous. This child is going to think that they can get whatever they want if you don't tell them NO sometimes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-79081771162022221292010-01-21T06:06:32.524+00:002010-01-21T06:06:32.524+00:00a doughnut sounds like a perfect birthday cake to ...a doughnut sounds like a perfect birthday cake to me!Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07101983212305123732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-40944195664593909502010-01-21T01:56:48.144+00:002010-01-21T01:56:48.144+00:00See Mother's rock...we could up with the best ...See Mother's rock...we could up with the best solutions!~ t a m m y ~https://www.blogger.com/profile/15018826603559606733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-57396586975356555112010-01-20T23:33:32.351+00:002010-01-20T23:33:32.351+00:00I loved this post, as I am guilty of almost the ex...I loved this post, as I am guilty of almost the exact same crime during my son's 4th birthday in December. Honestly, it is almost ridiculous how many times we celebrated.<br /><br />You are totally blameless in this scenario. And, might I add, you managed a most excellent recovery with the doughnut. :)Mayhem and Moxiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05520125461477518424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-44426584696676087852010-01-20T22:08:21.819+00:002010-01-20T22:08:21.819+00:00LOL!!!! That's tooo funny. I'm sure it was...LOL!!!! That's tooo funny. I'm sure it wasn't funny to you while it was happening but it's a great story to share and I'm sure your little one won't hold it against you guys.<br /><br />Have a great day! :)Kerryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04394597605545224403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-74037403002629022312010-01-20T21:56:13.995+00:002010-01-20T21:56:13.995+00:00Doughnuts are so much better than cake.
Who taug...Doughnuts are so much better than cake. <br /><br />Who taught that kid about birthdays anyway? : )<br /><br />My, kids learn fast what a birthday entails.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-13789371498294285862010-01-20T21:31:55.523+00:002010-01-20T21:31:55.523+00:00I would be thrilled with a birthday doughnut. It w...I would be thrilled with a birthday doughnut. It would be better than the big fat nothing that I got. But mine was low-cal. :)Traciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10612857982151448455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-28258471858064588642010-01-20T20:11:31.116+00:002010-01-20T20:11:31.116+00:00Great idea doing a birthday donut. Honestly, who e...Great idea doing a birthday donut. Honestly, who ends up eating the cake anyhow. That's right - us. Then we're pissed for putting on 5 pounds, which we rationalize as "We had to do it. Didn't want the cake to go to waste!" <br /><br />My birthday is next week - go Aquarians.<br /><br />Btw, if you've posted on the Bachelor recently (or even your post a few weeks back), you can link up in my Bachelor Blog Hop. I know more people watch it, so giving a place for them to read all the Bachelor posts in one spot. I think Mama Kat did one, too right?<br /><br />Tamara<br />www.theunexperiencedmom.comThe (Un)Experienced Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09108680143197967327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5543694658900314972.post-6504239164573959852010-01-20T19:25:18.032+00:002010-01-20T19:25:18.032+00:00Ha ha...I thought it was a Krispy Kreme!
I celebr...Ha ha...I thought it was a Krispy Kreme!<br /><br />I celebrate mine for (at least) a week, too. It's a mother's duty. :o)4 Lettre Wordshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16164130220334804366noreply@blogger.com